this is a concept page, and therefore is a collection of ideas and thoughts surrounding the concept.
notes - "to a developing nervous system, connection means **survival**. we cannot survive without our caregivers, so we have to behave in a way that preserves the connection." [heartledcreates](https://substack.com/@heartledcreates?utm_source=byline) - safety then becomes, where do i put this angerso that i am still loved? what do i do with this anger so that i am still safe and cared for? [heartledcreates](https://substack.com/@heartledcreates?utm_source=byline) - 
status - 2. sapling